On my "Profile" I do not have anything that says "My Space" so could someone tell me what i am doing wrong or if my computer is not set up to do this....or what!!!

For an off site avatar:
Look under the Go menu and choose "Personal Zone" and the sub menu for "Profile".

On your profile page, click the link to View/Edit Complete Profile.

Scroll down a bit, and you'll see "Avatar/Picture URL" section, with an "Edit" link just to the right.

Click the Edit link, and a new window opens.

At the very top of this window, click the link for "Custom Avatar".

You have two choices, a URL based Avatar, or an Upload.

1) If you want to use a custom avatar of an image SOMEWHERE on the web, then choose the "URL for your Custom Avatar" option, and put in the web address (URL) of the address where your image is stored.

2) If you want to upload a Custom Avatar, then click the option, and click the "Choose File" button. A window will open allowing you to navigate to the image file you want to use on your hard drive. Choose it.

Last steps: click the "Update Avatar" button and then the "Select This One" button.