good try chatting to her some more see if you can get to know her better see what responce you get to that. it will give her chance to see the inner you more than what you look like its important to be honest about who you are and give her chance to make up her own mind if she likes you or not.

that was my thought process

what does the word stress mean to you? and what makes you feel stressed?

interesting question...never thought about it
but money makes me stress, or lack thereof i should say

i think there alot of people feel stress around money if i could live without it i would. what makes me stressed is confusion and being unsure. if im confused or unsure abot something especially something im ment to be doing or somewhere im ment to be going that really stresses me .
what does not make you stressed? what i mean by this is what is the one thing that no matter what happens or changes never ever makes you stressed

hanging with my kitty cat Stitch.

wish i could say the same. i have 2 cats bitsy and rebecca they stress me out because when i want space they wont leave me alone but they are great when i want company they take my stress away then. the only thing that totaly de-stresses me and never causes me stress is listening to music especially lisa's music. i have this thing and you may think its strange but it always works for me and that is peoples voices i love listening to the sound of peoples voices. they can stress me at times when im on a worrying spree but they can also take away my stress too. there are only 3 people in the whole world who i can say that there voices have the ability to totaly relax my it does not even matter what they are saying just the sound of there voice

mental health has alot to do with the way we think and the way we deal with the challanges life throws at us i guess some people struggle with things that happen and all to offten they have a totaly different way of looking at the world and at their lives than other people. personaly im some would say cursed by being able to see all sides of things and being able to think before i act. i guess it can be a curse some times because i waste alot of time thinking before i do things but in its difence i understand the way others feel and put them first i guess i know within me that i would never willingly or knowingly hurt others id rather me hurt and be in pain than anybody else. thats great for everybody else but can be very stressful for me but i dont mind i wish i could protect everybody

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Originally posted by billie*bad*@ss:
i think mental health means is ur mentality healthy or unhealthy.

unfortunatly many people are lost in their thoughts whether they are good or bad and never venture past the whole thought process.

i think we will b allright

love the name lol...and i agree ...however i believe you can work through the process tho ..jmo. ... *

yeah BEE ..thats kinda how scientology works....reaction to every action...correct me anyone if im wrong but i think thats part of it ....thanks for posting

thats how life works isnt it every action does have a reaction good and bad but i guess most people dont think like that they all too often dont see the reaction to there action but that does not mean that there isnt one. i guess if we think of it in those terms everybody has a curse of some kind its either you think too much or you think too little i guess either way its always harmful to somebody, i guess its just trying the best you can to get the balance right and that in its self is a hard thing to do. i guess its hard to put yourself first and put others first too theres a conflict waiting to happen ive never managed to do it, i dont think i ever will get that one right

well everyone in general deals w/ that stuff you know. ...and they are not necessarily sick ....but i do agree BEE w/ ya ..
and i think you should always take care of yerself ...and yes other people whenever you can ....
PERFORM RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS OFTEN. *



thanks again BEE for startin this thread its good...oh yeah and i didnt go to that mind site ... anyway ...
my mind is altered lol i like to read books on that kind of stuff rather than internet ...
good books on manic depression:
"manic depression and the artistic temperment" Kay Jamison
"the un quiet mind" Kay Jamison ...who has manic depression/bi-polar and is a doctor and a professor at John Hopkins. ....VERY good book the first one ....many famous people in it and its like a text book ..she researched everything in it ..its not an opinion. ....

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thanks majik i think im guna have to look out for some of these books you say and i think it does help to know that there are people out there with mental health problams who can stil hold dow those kind of jobs i do find that bit of your post very interesting. see i told you that your always full of good info im so glad i started this thread because it aloud me to hear what you had to say your always helful and full of such good info
THANK YOU

I believe that your mental health also has a great deal to do with the company that you keep. No different than your own behavior right - we tend to do things that we normally would not do when we are in the company of certain 'friends' and such.

If you surround yourself with positive people who like you for WHo you are not WHAT you are - it is certainly a big jump start to each day.